• Thoughts

    Is there a Sufficient Substitute?

    The last 2 lines in the first full paragraph on page 152 in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous read as follows…I know I must get along without liquor, but how can I? Have you a sufficient substitute? We read this tonight in a meeting and I have read it at least 100 times before but it was like I heard it for the first time. I know, of course, in my sassbriety today that there is an amazing substitute for alcohol and I shared as much. Upon reflection it dawned on me that the alcohol was the poor substitute for what I have today. I was drinking to NOT…

  • Thoughts

    A 12 Step Love Revolution

    There is a revolution happening. A love revolution A shift where the hippies, the tree huggers, the spiritual seekers, the yoga doing, tea drinking, sage burning, chakra finding humans of the world have gone from being the kooks to becoming the norm. Love teachings are making a comeback. Kindness is becoming fashionable, tiny houses are replacing mansions. The new buzz words are mindfulness, consciousness, meditation, and presence. There are workshops popping up everywhere on how to be a better human being. We must learn (relearn) how to be compassionate, kind, and to love one another. A lot of us are realizing (awakening) to the fact that something feels like it’s…

  • Thoughts

    Too Skinny

    Since I was a kid and lately alot during the past few years, I have gotten alot of comments about my weight/body size. Comments like “Girl, you are too skinny”, “Do you even eat?” , “How do you not gain weight?”, You’re so lucky you can eat whatever you want”. I can honestly say I don’t exercise, I try and eat somewhat “healthy” but I eat alot of sweets since I got sober and really do not stress about food. I have the body of a 10 year old boy. No boobs, no butt. I’m pretty much a stick. I am very ok with this today but this was not…

  • My Journey

    Day One – I am not alone

    I am 1,040 days sober today. This is what I journaled about day one. I can not explain what has happened to me but I know I am not the same person anymore. I am changed. Awake. Full. Serene. I was broken, shattered. My soul was almost empty. I say almost because when I showed up at AA, I still had the smallest amount of hope left. Hey, I showed up didn’t I? I had hope that they could help me. Hope that they could help me, but fear that they would. How did I end up here? I don’t live under a bridge. I don’t drink out of a…

  • My Journey

    Hello world!

    Sassy: Lively, Bold, and Full of Spirit; Moxie Sobriety:  the condition of not having any measurable levels or effects from alcohol or drugs; Sobriety is also considered to be the natural state of a human being at birth Sassbriety: Living a bold, courageous life that is full of Adventure, Joy and lots of Love; to be drunk on life (instead of just drunk) This site is dedicated to those who loved me before I could love myself, to those who loved me after I could love myself and to those who let me love them before they could love themselves. I’m still trying to figure out how to use WordPress. It’s actually…